MOTIVATION, THE HEART OF SELF IMPROVEMENT

October 8th, 2009

Pain may sometimes be the reason why people change. Getting flunked grades make us realize that we need to study. Debts remind us of our inability to look for a source of income. Being humiliated gives us the ‘push’ to speak up and fight for ourselves to save our face from the next embarrassments. It may be a bitter experience, a friend’s tragic story, a great movie, or an inspiring book that will help us get up and get just the right amount of motivation we need in order to improve ourselves.

With the countless negativities the world brings about, how do we keep motivated? Try on the tips I prepared from A to Z…

A – Achieve your dreams. Avoid negative people, things and places. Eleanor Roosevelt once said, “the future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams.”

B – Believe in your self, and in what you can do.

C – Consider things on every angle and aspect. Motivation comes from determination. To be able to understand life, you should feel the sun from both sides.

D – Don’t give up and don’t give in. Thomas Edison failed once, twice, more than thrice before he came up with his invention and perfected the incandescent light bulb. Make motivation as your steering wheel.

E – Enjoy. Work as if you don’t need money. Dance as if nobody’s watching. Love as if you never cried. Learn as if you’ll live forever. Motivation takes place when people are happy.

F – Family and Friends – are life’s greatest ‘F’ treasures. Don’t loose sight of them.

G – Give more than what is enough. Where does motivation and self improvement take place at work? At home? At school? When you exert extra effort in doing things.

H – Hang on to your dreams. They may dangle in there for a moment, but these little stars will be your driving force.

I – Ignore those who try to destroy you. Don’t let other people to get the best of you. Stay out of toxic people – the kind of friends who hates to hear about your success.

J – Just be yourself. The key to success is to be yourself. And the key to failure is to try to please everyone.

K – keep trying no matter how hard life may seem. When a person is motivated, eventually he sees a harsh life finally clearing out, paving the way to self improvement.
L – Learn to love your self. Now isn’t that easy?

M – Make things happen. Motivation is when your dreams are put into work clothes.

N – Never lie, cheat or steal. Always play a fair game.

O – Open your eyes. People should learn the horse attitude and horse sense. They see things in 2 ways – how they want things to be, and how they should be.

P – Practice makes perfect. Practice is about motivation. It lets us learn repertoire and ways on how can we recover from our mistakes.

Q – Quitters never win. And winners never quit. So, choose your fate – are you going to be a quitter? Or a winner?

R – Ready yourself. Motivation is also about preparation. We must hear the little voice within us telling us to get started before others will get on their feet and try to push us around. Remember, it wasn’t raining when Noah build the ark.

S – Stop procrastinating.

T – Take control of your life. Discipline or self control jives synonymously with motivation. Both are key factors in self improvement.

U – Understand others. If you know very well how to talk, you should also learn how to listen. Yearn to understand first, and to be understood the second.

V – Visualize it. Motivation without vision is like a boat on a dry land.

W – Want it more than anything. Dreaming means believing. And to believe is something that is rooted out from the roots of motivation and self improvement.

X – X Factor is what will make you different from the others. When you are motivated, you tend to put on “extras” on your life like extra time for family, extra help at work, extra care for friends, and so on.

Y – You are unique. No one in this world looks, acts, or talks like you. Value your life and existence, because you’re just going to spend it once.

Z – Zero in on your dreams and go for it!!!

Thought It Not A Robbery

October 8th, 2009

Hard times,problems,challenges or troubles call it whatevername is not strange to any great man or woman on earth.Anyone who have gone through the life of outstanding heroes biographies will discover they all became graet by facing one challenge or the other.

It is not a crime to face challenges neither is it advisable  for anyone to accept defeat by  troubles.Why ? Troubles are not meant to rob us of our wonderful purpose but they are simply springboards for us to excel and express our hidden pontentials.

The name of anyone who overcomes challenges definately becomes unforgettable.There are  10 ways that I have over the years come to really enjoy to take control of situations and challenges.

At first glance, it would seem that productive thinking and Attention Deficit Disorder (ADD) have nothing to do with one another. But many of us with A.D.D. develop negative thinking patterns because we become frustrated by our challenges and frequent feelings of being overwhelmed. This negative outlook then makes it even harder for us to manage those challenges and move forward.

Practicing productive thinking allows people with ADD to focus on our strengths and accomplishments, which increases happiness and motivation. This, in turn, allows us to spend more time making progress, and less time feeling down and stuck. The following tips provide practical suggestions that you can use to help you shift into more positive thinking patterns:

1. Take Good Care of Yourself
It’s much easier to be positive when you are eating well, exercising, and getting enough rest.

2. Remind Yourself of the Things You Are Grateful For:
Stresses and challenges don’t seem quite as bad when you are constantly reminding yourself of the things that are right in life. Taking just 60 seconds a day to stop and appreciate the good things will make a huge difference.

3. Look for the Proof Instead of Making Assumptions:
A fear of not being liked or accepted sometimes leads us to assume that we know what others are thinking, but our fears are usually not reality. If you have a fear that a friend or family member’s bad mood is due to something you did, or that your co-workers are secretly gossiping about you when you turn your back, speak up and ask them. Don’t waste time worrying that you did something wrong unless you have proof that there is something to worry about.

4. Refrain from Using Absolutes:
Have you ever told a partner “You’re ALWAYS late!” or complained to a friend “You NEVER call me!”? Thinking and speaking in absolutes like ‘always’ and ‘never’ makes the situation seem worse than it is, and programs your brain into believing that certain people are incapable of delivering.

5. Detach From Negative Thoughts:
Your thoughts can’t hold any power over you if you don’t judge them. If you notice yourself having a negative thought, detach from it, witness it, and don’t follow it.

6. Squash the “ANTs”:
In his book “Change Your Brain, Change Your Life,” Dr. Daniel Amen talks about “ANTs” – Automatic Negative Thoughts. These are the bad thoughts that are usually reactionary, like “Those people are laughing, they must be talking about me,” or “The boss wants to see me? It must be bad!” When you notice these thoughts, realize that they are nothing more than ANTs and squash them!

7. Practice Lovin’, Touchin’ & Squeezin’ (Your Friends and Family):
You don’t have to be an expert to know the benefits of a good hug. Positive physical contact with friends, loved ones, and even pets, is an instant pick-me-up. One research study on this subject had a waitress touch some of her customers on the arm as she handed them their checks. She received higher tips from these customers than from the ones she didn’t touch!

8. Increase Your Social Activity:
By increasing social activity, you decrease loneliness. Surround yourself with healthy, happy people, and their positive energy will affect you in a positive way!

9. Volunteer for an Organization, or Help another Person Free:
Everyone feels good after helping. You can volunteer your time, your money, or your resources. The more positive energy you put out into the world, the more you will receive in return.

10. Use Pattern Interrupts to Combat Rumination:
If you find yourself ruminating, a great way to stop it is to interrupt the pattern and force yourself to do something completely different. Rumination is like hyper-focus on something negative. It’s never productive, because it’s not rational or solution-oriented, it’s just excessive worry. Try changing your physical environment – go for a walk or sit outside. You could also call a friend, pick up a book, or turn on some music.

When it comes to the corporate world, protocol is pretty much the religion. To know the things needed to do are the basics of productivity, but interaction and having a steady mind makes up the entire thing to true productivity. There are those who seem to work well even under pressure, but they’re uncommon ones and we are human and imperfect. To get these little things like stress under our skins won’t solve our problems. Sometimes it takes a bit of courage to admit that we’re turning to be workaholics than tell ourselves that we’re not doing our best.

How To Churn Out Hot Selling Information Products Tittles in a Jiffy and Flood Your Bank Account With Cash Every Single Day!

September 28th, 2009

People are hungry for information, and people are looking to the Internet to feed their hunger. After you’ve read this article, you will feel confident enough to create information products that will flood your bank account with cash .

Napoleon Hills talks about a man in his bestselling book” Think and Grow Rich” who by just changing the tittle of his book and the cover was able to triple the book  sales within a short time.  So the tittle you give your excellent write up is very crucial.

Observe what’s going on around you

If you’re smart enough to read this article, you’re smart enough to look around you and determine what interests you and those around you. Think of what problems you’ve recently solved, and what kinds of problems others have had and solved. Any problem that has been solved in your world could easily be the subject of your next information product. People love to read how other have solved a problem that they currently have.

So, brainstorm a list of problems in your life and in the lives of those around you. Your friend Rick lost his job? Your sister’s child had chicken pox? How did they cope or find solutions? While you’re at it, start another list of unsolved problems evident in your corner of the world. Write down problems you wish you had solved. Aha! These are subjects that people will really be interested in! How to lose the last ten pounds. The truth about UFOs. The straightest path to becoming a millionaire. From your personal corner, your step-granddaughter is pregnant at age 14? Your grocery bill is double what it used to be? Your roof leaks? These are problems waiting for ebook solutions!

These unsolved problems would also be great ebook topics. Remember, you don’t have to know the solution, just the topic. You’re going to get someone else to do the research and write the book for you. You will not actually be writing one word.

Spend a few minutes Googling

The Internet is a great way to find out what people are looking for at any given moment. You can search for almost anything. Google™ is a popular search engine you can use, or you can try any of the others like Yahoo!® or Mamma.com. Type in phrases like “top concerns of Americans,” “best-selling nonfiction topics,” or “popular how-to manuals.” Common worries of 2005.
And while you’re on the Internet…

Find out the most popular nonfiction books from the New York Times bestseller list, Amazon, and a Google search for ebooks. Your findings will tell you exactly what book subjects people are buying right now.
Try this. Go to www.amazon.com. From the tabbed menu running along the top of the Amazon home page, click “Top Sellers.”

Here is some more good news, and if you didn’t already know this then you are going to be smiling big. Drum roll please… ideas are not copyrighted, therefore any idea you see, hear, or read anywhere anytime, is yours to use for an ebook! You can create books around the same ideas that are covered in the Amazon best seller list, and turnaround and create an ebook on the exact same subject!
Now, copyright law does protect the way ideas are expressed, so you want to make sure your hired author does not plagiarize or copy book text outright.  And you cannot use the title word for word either. But there’s nothing stopping you from creating another book or ebook that covers the same subject with a different voice. It’s all as completely legal and guilt-free as nonfat Haagen Dazs. This is why looking at bestseller lists is a great way to get topic ideas.

Digging a little deeper

There are groups of people who are willing to buy nonfiction ebooks: hobbyists. At any given time, these people are looking for ways to spend their money on their hobbies. Their passion is your financial gain.
What avid hobbyists want will always make great ebook material. Note that I did not say what hobbyists need. You may have certain opinions on what exactly certain people should need or should read. But those are not necessarily good topics for immediate ebook profit. Those topics may be areas for you to dabble in at your leisure. However, if you want to make money at this, find out what niche groups want, and hit those groups with your ebook.

Find hobbyists and niche groups by searching the web for “popular hobbies,” “enthusiasts,” or “what America is buying.” Or, you can search specifically for forums and discussion groups for hobbyists. In the forums, people talk with each other to share ideas with one another. Often, they will exchange testimonials for equipment, upcoming events, and books.
One popular site where hobbyists go to talk to one another online is Yahoo!. Check it out. Go to www.yahoo.com. Click “groups.” On the groups page you’ll see a list of categories such as Business & finance, and Religion. For demonstration purposes, click on “Games.”
On the games screen, game subcategories are listed followed by numbers. The numbers indicate how many discussion forums are available for that subcategory. These numbers reveal a lot. Notice how “role playing games,” and “video & computer games” have factors of ten or in some cases factors of 100 more forums than other subcategories. “Wargaming” and “paintball” don’t even come close, although those categories are much more discussion-laden than “horseshoe pitching.”

For fun, one day I continued selecting subcategories until I arrived at a list of over a thousand (yes a thousand) discussion groups on Yahoo having to do with vampire role playing. Here’s how I got there: Games>>Role Playing Games>>Live Action>> World of Darkness>>Vampire: The Masquerade.

Some of the forums are open to new members, and you can join to read what everyone’s discussing. Once in the forum, you can review discussion threads from today, yesterday, or a year ago. Don’t go back too far if you want to find out the hottest possible ebook topics. You can participate in discussions if you like. FYI, do not drop into a discussion group just to market an ebook; hobbyists consider this spam and will drop you from the group.
When you read and/or participate, you’ll find out what this group is buying. All you have to do is skim to find out what questions they are asking each other about products or traveling or information. What they are interested in buying is a key piece of information because passionate consumers love to research before they buy. This is an immediate ebook market. Create a book on how to select the best this or that on the market, related to the current wants of the enthusiasts.

Enthusiasts come in all shapes and sizes. Think brides-to-be, golfers, whitewater rafters, people who collect vintage baseball cards, wine connoisseurs, gardeners, frequent vacationers, video gamers, and parents who put their children into private tutoring, ballet, and violin lessons before age 3.
There are some hobbies that seem to continually attract enthusiasts, like playing golf, watching football, restoring old cars, and listening to music. These are classics. Then there are some hobbies that seem to come and go in waves, such as Red Hat Societies participation, snow boarding, or line dancing. Pick either a classic hobby or a fluctuating hobby in its peak season for your best odds.

A big market on the Internet is the 20-30 set. Here’s what they are doing right now, according to one survey. They’re snowboarding, wakeboarding, traveling, camping, listening to music, taking photographs. They’re drinking gourmet coffee, rock climbing, playing guitar, camping, dancing, looking for online love, shopping for computers and other electronics, attending sports events, studying the Bible, exercising, trying to find jobs, and watching movies. Any one of these subjects would make a great ebook with a buying market standing by.

You can quickly tap into this hot cash spot now cheers !

The Insider Secret To Determine What People Want In Information Marketing Business?

September 28th, 2009

This is a problem for a lot of people. They don’t know how to determine what a lot of people want so they can create products for them. For you, it’s shouldn’t be a problem.

Identify A Problem

This is the fastest way for you to succeed with your product. Can you come up with a product that can solve solve a problem for people? Once you can identify a problem, you’re ready to make money.

Let me give you an example. Everywhere I turn to online today, I find out that Nigerians are looking for a way to be able to open and operate a paypal account.

Personally, I do not think it’s compulsory to have it especially when you consider that paypal will close down your account if they find out that you are from Nigeria.

But people kept asking me for it. So I had to do a lot of research. I spent time and money on how to go about it. Eventually, I found out a simple system where people can open their own paypal account.

I priced the service (it’s not actually a product) at N4,500 and about 50 people have taken me up on it. How much money is that? Two hundred and twenty-five thousand naira. It’s that easy.

I identified a problem and gave a solution.

Can It Make Money For People?

That is another easy way to come up with information products. Once you can come up with something that can make money for people stress free, you have come up with a winner.

The truth is that everybody wants more money. Don’t you? Come up with it and you will make money.

Let me use the football predicting example to explain this…

I did not know anyone who was looking for ways to make money by predicting the outcome of football matches. Very few people knew about it in Nigeria.

I however knew people would like it considering the fact that it could make you good money and also because football was fun and very popular in Nigeria. I packaged it and advertised and it sold well.

Can It Make People Live A Better Life or Become Happy?

This is another winner although many people are not doing it in Nigeria. It was the basis that formed my first ever information product. That was in 2003. It was a product that teaches people how to relocate to Canada as a skilled worker.

We know a lot of Nigerians want to relocate abroad and live a better life so that kind of product will sell if you package well. Similar products will sell as well. Products like passing JAMB easily, like getting a good job, organising a great marriage, winning back your lover’s heart etc.

EBOOK? VIDEO? MANUAL?

People often ask me: In what format should their information product be in? My usual reply is it depends on you. It depends on what you will confident with. As long as you can express yourself well, the format is not that important.

BUT EMMY, I CAN’T WRITE. I’M NOT WOLE SOYINKA!

This is a big problem for a lot of people. Most people I teach tell me that they won’t be able to create an ebook or manual because they are not prolific writers.

I often tell them that they don’t have to write like any guru to have good information products. Just write what’s in your mind and teach as honestly as you can and you will be okay.

I STILL CAN’T WRITE!

Okay. I hear you. You can’t write. There is still a way out. The way out is that you don’t have to write. You can create other kinds of products. Like you already know, you can create audios and videos. You can even hire someone to write it for you.

I DON’T HAVE ANY IDEA ABOUT ANY PRODUCT
Still not a problem. There are many people who just don’t know how to start with the creation of their products. It could be a daunting task for beginners. Not to worry, we can find ways around that as well.

Here are the ways to create information products without having to do the work yourself.

Interview An Expert

Once you have decided on a topic, identify an expert in that field and interview him. Record the interview and use an an audio information product. You can turn it into a manual by transcribing it.

A lot of people think that the experts will not agree to be interviewed. They are wrong. The only way you will not get people to interview is if you do not ask. If you ask politely, people will agree.

Even the experts wants a bit of publicity.

Conduct A Seminar/Training

This is another simple way to go about it. It is similar to the one above. Organise a free or cheap seminar and have it recorded. Your recording becomes an information product. You don’t have to be the speaker. Invite an expert and just do the recording.

Easy!

Use Private Label Rights Materials

Listen Up!

If you’re ready to create information products the fast and easy way, this is the route to go. With private label rights products, you can create your information products in the next ten to fifteen minutes.

Sounds to good to be true? If you know how to use this technique, you can make a killing in information marketing business.

Image consultants: Why do we need them?

September 28th, 2009

In the past, there is no such thing as an image consultant. There are people who will help us get dressed or those who will advise to change our attitudes in work. But they are not paid for their suggestions. Often, most of these suggestions are even unsolicited.

This is perhaps because people in the olden days do not really care how people see them or if they do, they don’t need to change their image to please a larger population. Today, the advent of the computers and the television media has spurred the need for this kinds of professionals. More and more people are now able to follow the lives and movements of people around them. Their actions are documented and they are more in need to keep their image wholesome and clean.

But not all people are in need of image consultants. Some can get by without one. So who are the people who need this kind of help? Here is a rundown of the people who frequently hire image consultants.

1. Movie Stars
Constantly on the limelight, their careers and the movie projects that they get will depend on the reputation that they build. This is especially true for newcomers who are just starting to build their names in the movie industry. Often, their managers are the ones who will hire image consultants to help them become more presentable to the public especially when they are invited for guestings and awarding events.

2. Politicians
Do we even need to rationalize why these people need image consultants? From the way they dress to the way they speak in front of the camera, every little thing is being scrutinized. These people are not just in the limelight, their reputation and their every action will define the line between victory and defeat.

Also, some politicians make use of image consultants to help them in their campaign. Some consultants are masters in changing the appearance and demeanor of a candidate to suit the state that they are campaigning in. After all, in order to win, they need to be able to win the hearts and the minds of the natives in that state.

3. CEOs
Top honchos of major corporations must also keep up appearances if they want the good image of their companies to stay. This is especially true if the company is at the center of a controversy. Top honchos must appear sincere and trustworthy so as to minimize public scorn and distrust that may severely affect the business’ stocks and sales.

4. Spokespersons
People who are often called to issue statements for companies, government agencies and the like are often asked to hire image consultants to improve on how they put themselves across to people. Their appearance, like the CEOs will largely affect how the rest of the country and the world will see the company that they represent.

5. Frontliners and sales personnel
People whose jobs often deal with people like the marketing and sales departments also undergo workshops from image consultants to improve the way they are perceived by people. These people as you will remember are the ones that are out there representing the company.

Their good images will reflect on how people perceive the company as a whole and in the long run, can translate to sales and marketing success.